Friday, March 23, 2012

happy ending or just an ending..


Maybe some of us believed that it's better and sweeter the second time around. In some cases it is because you've learned from your faults and taking it where they both left it.

Some also have this mindset that if it didn't work the first time, then what makes you think it'll work out the second time.

It all depends on where the first one ended. If the reason is just fate why a couple parted then most probably it'll worth the second chance if time permits. Maybe that time they're too young or maybe they can't handle the distance.

Others will take a second shot even if the first time ended in a not so good manner. They believed that if the 'spark' is still there then it's worth the try. Maybe it'll still end up the same way as the first but a least they tried to end things better. They say that lightning doesn't strike on the same spot twice.

"Second chance doesn't always mean a happy ending. 
Sometimes, it's just another shot to end things better"


Thursday, March 22, 2012

Moment to Memory ...


When everything is within our zone, we tend to neglect small details leading to something uncontrollable. They say we appreciate what we had when it's already gone.

Some people do appreciate and value what they have but they are too confident that they won't lose it. So they do things they think that's right and forget to respect the emotion of the other half. Little quarrels that you just ignore not knowing that it might be a big thing for her. Next thing you know things are out of your control. A hundred of broken piece is much dangerous than a single whole knife.

Also I know for a fact that some of us do appreciate what we've lost when we see them being valued by others. It'll make us think and miss things like holding her hand, talking to her and joking around. What hurts the most is when we see them doing what you planned on doing when she still in you arms.
 All those things that would make you wonder "what if" and wish for a "second chance".

Cherish every second. Don't wait for time to make your 'moment' a 'memory'. Appreciate what you have now before other's make you realize what you had.