happy ending or just an ending..

Maybe some of us believed that it's better and sweeter the second time around. In some cases it is because you've learned from your faults and taking it where they both left it.

Some also have this mindset that if it didn't work the first time, then what makes you think it'll work out the second time.

It all depends on where the first one ended. If the reason is just fate why a couple parted then most probably it'll worth the second chance if time permits. Maybe that time they're too young or maybe they can't handle the distance.

Others will take a second shot even if the first time ended in a not so good manner. They believed that if the 'spark' is still there then it's worth the try. Maybe it'll still end up the same way as the first but a least they tried to end things better. They say that lightning doesn't strike on the same spot twice.

"Second chance doesn't always mean a happy ending. 

Sometimes, it's just another shot to end things better"

Moment to Memory ...

When everything is within our zone, we tend to neglect small details leading to something uncontrollable. They say we appreciate what we had when it's already gone.

Some people do appreciate and value what they have but they are too confident that they won't lose it. So they do things they think that's right and forget to respect the emotion of the other half. Little quarrels that you just ignore not knowing that it might be a big thing for her. Next thing you know things are out of your control. A hundred of broken piece is much dangerous than a single whole knife.

Also I know for a fact that some of us do appreciate what we've lost when we see them being valued by others. It'll make us think and miss things like holding her hand, talking to her and joking around. What hurts the most is when we see them doing what you planned on doing when she still in you arms.

 All those things that would make you wonder "what if" and wish for a "second chance".

Cherish every second. Don't wait for time to make your 'moment' a 'memory'. Appreciate what you have now before other's make you realize what you had.

Is LoVe sweeter the 2nd time around.?!

Just cross my mind that it’s nice to write something about some old cliché. 'Love is sweeter the second time around'. This is what I think of it.

It depends on how the first one ended. There are instances that the first didn't go well because of some factors. Maybe if the reason is just "not the right time" thing, then maybe it is sweeter the second time around.

It also depends on how long is the gap between the first one and the second. On how mature each person became since they parted.

Where the second time started is also a factor. If they'll start again from being friends or start it from where they took off.

I guess it'll be sweeter if both parties will get with each other again with the thought that the first one didn't went well because of some indifferences. It'll be nice if they are ready to face that anytime soon that maybe, just maybe, second one will be just the same as the first one.

The key is to learn from the first one. On what went wrong and what makes it special that it deserves another shot. For me a “chance is change". We are given a second chance to change what's needed to be change.

The most important thing is to take into consideration why you have that second chance. It has to have a reason. A very special something that you decided to leave all the worries of the past and start a new.

Are you a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime [by Ray Ilustre]

.. Lately I've been sharing friends' notes and entries. I just like to share how other people look at things and eventually open some eyes to the beauty of life and love.


One of Ray Ilustre's entries in her Multiply page talks about how you see yourself in a relationship with someone.


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..When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are! They are there for a reason you need them to be. Then without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes, they die. Sometimes, they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer that you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

...Then people come into your life for a SEASON...because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But only for a season.

...LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

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