In every problem there is always two side of a story.
No matter whose fault it is, we should listen to what they have to say. For example, you caught your boyfriend with another girl. Even if you're so mad, you should listen to why he did it. Give him the benefit of the doubt. There's always a reason why he did it. Maybe he found something with the new girl that you don't have. No matter how big his mistake is, you also have a problem. He won't do something bad if there is no problem with you. Don't wait for the time that you'll regret that you didn't listen to his side. Talk to him and listen. Any problem will be resolve if we'll just communicate. You don't what to have "what might have been" in your lifetime. So listen to what other's have to say because no matter how thin the slice is, there will always be two parts.
Who knows, you have the bigger part and you fail to listen.
5 comments:
sometimes men are just born like this... not generally! but i met men that are into a wonderful relationship..but still cheat! i guess this is what you called "TEMPTATION" its not just the partner who's in fault but i guess... just to add up a bit info .MEN should learn how to resist temptation..
what if you listened but then again he will give you a crappy reasons. then he still gonna cheat on you afterwards.
I guess its unfair for the girl in this blog (Story) that is because there's something wrong with her or probably the guy see something greater to other girl compare to her then the guy would cheat right away.This is not a healthy relationship, then where is the "communication" part is?
I think this is the main problem lack of communication, both sides needs to talk not just cheesy sweet words but also about how is there relationship going and if there's something wrong then why not talk about it. Find for the right solution to improve it not just like you have to keep it in yourself and just go somewhere and cheat.. this is immaturity!
if it works then cool,if not then there's no reason for them to be together.
no offense. but this is just ridiculous. how on earth can you justify your side like this? if i find my boyfriend not good enough, does that give me the "go" to be with another guy? no. that would hurt his ego big time. communication? were you even man enough to tell her about your concerns? there's nothing wrong with your girlfriend. it's you who got issues trying to rationalize cheating with egotistic theories in your attempt to make it somewhat acceptable. again, no offense. just egostrippin.' peace y'all!!! :)
..i agree... i juz don't understand wen most of u doesn't have the courage to tell us wat's wrong with us...common line "it's not u, it's me....,"hahahahaha...the hell!!!
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