Nowadays, there are a lot of things that we encounter and experience that we don't know whether we can handle it.
A friend of mind once told me to just accept that thing and don't try to understand it. At first it seems like a difficult thing to do but eventually it manages to work on things.
Trying to accept anything that happen then move on is easy to say. Trying to understand what happened seems to be the difficult part.
In an instance of a break-up, understanding what happened is easy but accepting what just happened is difficult because you are in a stage of denying all things that you don't understand and trying to accept that it's over.
The technique of accepting things without understanding it will not be effective to everyone but it's sure that it'll make things a li'l less painful. We all know that loving and then losing someone is very hard and you need to understand what happened, but always remember that there's always a reason why it happened (somewhere in the middle things didn't go well). So from that stand point you just let it be and accept things as it is. It'll take time but everything will seem to fall into places after some time. Remember that the things that you don't know won't hurt you. So don't let yourself be in a point of knowing everything because it you might end up knowing things that's hard to accept.
2 comments:
being able to admit where the hard part of moving on is a strength you never thought you have. Keep going sir Erik. Love will always find you. :))
Remember that the things that you don't know won't hurt you. So don't let yourself be in a point of knowing everything because it you might end up knowing things that's hard to accept.
--so true!
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