Basically we have this very very simple questions in our mind but will even take a lifetime to answer it.
"What if?" -- When we do something that involves our decision is an instant we leave this question at the back of our mind... Choosing someone over the other.. Making this instead of that.. Going here and not there.. Almost all decisions we make will leave us with this question..
Some people will tell us to think everything a million times before making a move.. Even if you'll take a lifetime to think of over things, the question will always be there.
"What is.." -- I guess this phrase will make us feel good. We choose to do "what is..." good for us, "what is.." happiness, "what is.." there for me, etc etc etc...
Others will always remind us of always everything "what is...". To stop pretending that we know love but to feel "what is.." love. To stop living in a fantasy and start living "what is..." life.
Maybe the big difference of the two is how you treat them in every event. If you choose something over the other and you think what will the other will fell, then obviously you'll be bothered by the thought of "WHAT IF?" But if you will think "WHAT IS.." good for that other person, then you're being honest to yourself.
2 comments:
samuka anang what if oi...daghan typo...hahaha...spelling check...fantacy...lol...sunod topc kay Moving on...hahaha..-JR
..as i reach my ideal age of getting into a relationshp, i promise myself not to leave 'what ifs'.. I want to do things that makes me happy and satisfied. No matter wat it takes so long as it won't b against other's happiness.. There might b instances that i need to break the rules but i would really make it a point to face the consequenceS of my acts. I just don't want to look back saying 'what if'..coz i know i 've done what i have to yet it didn't went well. I will never regret the things i've done coz i know its a lesson learned. _poor girl19_
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