Saturday, May 30, 2009

it's hard to be friends with your Ex..

It's hard to be friends with your Ex. I know some people will not agree with this. For me, it's hard to be friends with your ex because of some factors. First, when your with contact with your past, one of you might think that there is a possibility of a second chance. One of you would assume that maybe the other half is giving it a chance to see if it would probably be sweeter the second time around. Second, because of the relationship that both of you had before, it's very hard to act normal when you're together. It's sometimes very hard for a boy to keep his hand to himself. He often will hold her hand or doing the things that he's used of. Like holding her face, her hair and some sweet things that he's doing before. And because the girl is comfortable of those things because of the past, the boy would probably think that it's alright to keep on doing those things. It would create a conflict if the boy would take to another level and the girl is just being nice.

Sometimes it's very nice to keep friends with your ex but it's not very healthy if one of you is still holding on. One of you can't move on because of the fact the every time you meet or talk, one of you would fall all over again.

4 comments:

♥aDeLLe cRiStiNe♥ said...

hhhhmmm...enlightening...

Magic said...

Wehehehe. what can I say about this? hmmm. true enough, in as much as I want to be, there are just things that aren't the same anymore.

lizfet said...

somehow this is true.. and i guess the best common problem with this is JEALOUSY.. (based on my experience,yikes!)

Mai Vallejo said...

i think it's better na u won't see each other after the break up and talk things out...it's much easier to for both of u...