Moving on from an unwanted relationship maybe is one of the hardest thing we can experience in a lifetime. We can live with the thought of losing someone but definitely it'll take time. They same that we must not give everything in every relationship so that you can easily move on if ever it wouldn't work out right. I guessed this thought of not giving everything in a relationship is unfair. If ever you just gave your 50% in a relationship, wouldn't it be unfair thinking that the other half might gave her all?! Would it be the reason why the relationship didn't turn right because you're holding back?
When you love, love like you're not been hurt before. Make time like there's no tomorrow. And if ever you gave everything and still it didn't work like you expected it, then at least it's easier for you to think that you gave your 100%. And from your broken pieces of your heart you'll take the leverage to move on. At least when you're alone and think of the memories, it's easier to think that maybe it's her fault because you knew for a fact that you've given you're 100%. It's alright to cry you heart out because it will help a lot especially if your friend is just listening [no advise to give?!]. Advices are not helpful when you're venting out because it will make you confuse.
You don't need to get over her just to move on. Getting through the day without the toughs of him, smiling whenever you passed by a memory, not reacting every time you hear her name, finding time to appreciate what other people are doing for you. I guess these are few of the things you can say that you're in the process of moving on..
Make every moment an opportunity to move on. If someone will invite you to go out, then go out with her. It doesn't mean that you'll end up with him. At least with that thought, you're trying to be happy.
It's not easy to move on especially when almost everything will remind you of her. Just think of the thought that she might not be crying her heart out, maybe she is out with someone. Always bear in mind that maybe you're not her everything like what she is to you.
But then again at the end of the day, TIME can heal of all wounds. Even if you're invincible or just an emotional fool.
4 comments:
Cheezzyy kaayo uy!!!
pwede ba nang invincible pero emotional fool pud??? hahaha...
naa ba diay unwanted relationship???
unsa na??? murag wa nako nagets...
-jr
I believe there is no such thing as moving on.. Acceptance and letting go makes a little sense than moving on. No one ever moves on.. we only let go and accept :)
Moving on..letting go..acceptance.. How could you get into this process if the person involved was never been yours yet made you COMPLETE!?! how will you face the fact that the person who made you happy is the same person who makes you cry?? And that his mere presence causes so much pain within yet you know d only cure is HIM..._poor girl19_
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